I had to reply as I could have actually written this, sounds exactly like my husband and unfortunately his ex.. I don't know have a lot of advise but it did get better for us, once she settled down and found a man.. a very older one but a man none the less, she has held down a job for 5 years amazingly.. But I have completely and totally disengaged from her, I have not laid eyes on her since 2016 lucky me.. I just hope your situation gets better; my hubby still won't stand up to her which drives me insane but I have just tried to let it go..easier said then done! Goodluck x ... View more