My partner and I have been together for 5 years he has a 15 year old daughter and a 12 year old son. I have had troubles with each of them but mainly with his son. He is adhd but his dad chooses not to medicate him when he is with us. We used to have him every 2 nd weekend but for the last 4 month he has lived with us full time. My step son has always had a problem with me often saying that he wishes me and his dad would break up so his mum and dad can get back together ( mind you they haven’t been together since he was 2) he argues with me about everything and if I say no he runs to his dad who then says yes, this causes me to get cranky and say something to my stepson and then my partner yells at me like I’m causing fights. I’m genuinely scared when I am with him he is so out of control and nasty to me but as soon as he hears his father come home he is straight in to apologise before I can tell my partner what he has done. I am literally at my wits end I don’t know what to do. I love my partner but this kid is causing me to distance myself and think the most horrible thoughts about myself ... View more