Hi @fatherneedshelp  Welcome to ReachOut's Parent & Carer forums. Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. It is clear how concerned you are about your son and I can tell how much you care about him and want to help. It also sounds like his recent behaviour has triggered memories around your own painful past which must be heightening the fears you have for your son. Whilst our service and resources are Australian specific, we wanted to share some important resources around substance use specific to your community which include Drugfree and Substance Use Resources I also wanted to share this article with you about setting realistic boundaries with your teenager that I thought would be helpful for you to have a look over. I am also mindful of the impact this must be having on you and wondered what your own support network looks like? ... View more