Thank you for your open and sincere advise. I often am in the middle of I should follow my motherly instincts or if what I set as rules will affect her in the long run. You reassured me that’s it’s ok as a parent to protect her and as her mom I do feel the need to express what it is I don’t like about this boy. She is very understanding so I don’t see it going wrong. I will also talk to his mom since I do know her to try and save this boy from a lifestyle that he won’t be able to run away from when he gets to deep into it. Thanks again 🙏🏼
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My daughter is 15 yrs old, she’s been talking to a boy her same age. He smokes weed and is beginning to sell it. I’ve been around this boy and he is very nice and treats her well, but as a parent I don’t want her around this lifestyle. I’ve taken her phone away before because of this boy sending her videos of him smoking, this time he just mentions to her that he is doing “drops” and has posted on social media the stuff he sells. I don’t want to get her in trouble for things others are doing. She’s an awsome daughter, does well in school and is always so helpful. On their texts I can see she doesn’t enable him to do this and sorta ignores when he mentions he’s doing “drops” meaning he’s dropping off weed. I honestly don’t know what to do, do I take her phone away? Do I give her less freedom on her phone? This kid no longer goes to her school and his brother plays in the soccer team my other children play in so he bumps into us at soccer and they will interact there but I don’t let her go out to hang out with friends. I’m stuck on how much do I let her be around this kid, or if I should even intervene.
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