My boyfriend has always dealt with it by giving them everything she asks for,walked out with a bag of clothes.  He gave her 600,000 home vehicles, crazy amounts of child support over paid . We have nothing, I developed PTSD, The games played were the straw that broke the camel's back.  They stalked me, my daughter's still do,18 years later.  He either denies what's happening,gives whatever to not rock the boat.  The kids are in their 20s,just went through a weekend where daughter came and caused total chaos she slipped up and said mother sent her.  I just try and avoid her if you confront her about catching her in a lie  she has a tantrum like a 2 year old and threatens suicide.  We had a friend staying with us and he still blown away what he witnessed, tried to open boyfriends eyes to what he could obvious see was manipulation and her trying to come between us.  The mother has made her like this.  The stuff his ex has done. to me,us,you wouldn't believe but it isn't what you can get cops to help you with.  I seriously thought I was going to have nervous breakdown from this last visit,I am still pretty shaky about it.  My daughter's are very supportive but don't know what to do ,confronting makes it worse and ignoring it has achieved nothing ... View more

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I have been in the very identical situation and it's 18 years now.  Kids come to create problems to make mom happy it's the only way they bond.  I am at my wits end having a total breakdown. I can't find any solution, they do things in a way you can't involve police.  I have PTSD and they are a big cause of it.  If anyone has any answers please let me know.   ... View more

Has anyone had any success with dealing with the boyfriends toxic ex.  I have the absolute same story ,and I hate to tell you it's been going on for close to 18 years. Just finished 2 days of he'll with the 23 year old daughter sent on another mission from mom to create problems,  I am so done ,can't take anymore of the games ... View more