I understand that this service is really for parents of teenagers, but I'm finding difficulty finding a support forum for parents of that in-between/primary school age. I do understand if you're unable to help. My son is 10. He has anxiety and we've (my husband and I) have had difficulty getting him to go to school since Prep - he's now in grade four. He saw a counsellor in grade two, and he's seeing both a play therapist and a psychologist now. He's also started medication for anxiety. Things seem to be getting worse though, not better. He genuinely wants to go to school, but his extreme anxiety is stopping him. As of the start of this term only his dad has been able to get him there, I'm completely unable to even get him out of the house. I'm not a particularly big person and I just physically can't move him without risk of hurt us both. The school has been supportive, but also very inconsistent in their help. I've said multiple times that we need a clear plan of attack, but apart from making suggestions they don't really follow through. They don't want to give him work to do at home, because they don't want him to get comfortable with that, but I'm worried that falling behind will just compound his anxiety about going. I feel lost. And trapped. I don't know what else to try. Again, I understand he's a bit young for this forum, but if you could point me in the right direction I'd be very grateful.
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