thanks Iona RO. nothing specific happened, she likes to spend time with her boyfriend, and his family are accommodating. i think she is angry that I went to the house. she likes to keep our lives separate. I think i have embarrassed her by arriving at the house and telling her she had to go to school. her boyfriend had the day off work, so I am pretty sure she had no intention of going to school. the venom in her texts to me after I left was a surprise. 'i hate you' 'I never want to speak to you again'. i told her I was just trying to help, save her the trip home etc. I asked her if we could catch up, she said not today, tomorrow. she has since asked if she can stay at his house again tonight. i will let things calm down and try again tomorrow.  ... View more