Hi , I have a similar situation with my 17yo. I understand your feelings of devastation and hurt. My daughter went to her friends house for a few nights, which turned to weeks, and then they hatched a plan to leave school and moved to a regional area. I feel disrespected and powerless. She can drive and has a car and is making her own decisions. It has all happened in the past few months and my brain is trying to catchup with this new reality. She answers my calls sometimes, and texts sometimes. She says I am the worst mum and I don't speak nicely to her. She is usually telling me to apologise to her which I don't think I should but lately have offered , only to be told that's not a good enough apology. I hope our relationship can improve and that we keep communication open between us. I dont understand her and think she needs space and time to grow and live her new life she is seeking. I miss her very much and feel confused on why I am considered a terrible parent. ... View more