12-01-2021 10:44 PM
12-01-2021 10:46 PM
12-01-2021 11:45 PM
HI Janey... Sounds like a difficult situation. I think that on the one hand, this is his daughter and it sounds positive that she is spending quality time with him. It might be more helpful to view it as family time including all 3 of you, then to perceive it as a her vs me situation. On the other hand though, it does sound like a good idea to give her a bedtime and to display consisitent parenting. I would think that having a more formal discussion with him about your respective parenting approaches might be beneficial. It would also be helpful to talk to him about the way youre feeling. Maybe if there is a discussion about spending some quality time together with just the 2 of you, then there would be less distress from your end regarding spending time with the daugther. It does sound like a tricky situation though and i can see why youre feeling stressed. Be sure to reach out to friends, or professional support if you feel you need it.
12-16-2021 03:20 AM
Thanks for your insights, it helped me with my situation at home. Ty again.