06-13-2021 08:50 AM
06-13-2021 03:07 PM
Hello @Frustrated2 , sorry to hear about the issues you have been having with the father of your children. It sounds like there have been some issues with communication and these issues sound quite difficult. It sounds like there isn’t really a consistent time that their father wants to talk with their children. It might be a good idea to arrange a certain time each week (or whatever desired time) where they speak with their father. It’s best that you discuss this with their father so that you can both decide on a time that suits best. The children might also want to talk to their dad if it is at a consistent time. Have you been able to talk with your children about why they don’t want to talk with their dad? You might need to have a lengthy discussion with their father where you set some boundaries and expectations around reasonable times he can call his children, and what happens if his children don’t want to talk. If you are finding that you are unable to come to any reasonable decisions, you might need to get a third party involved, such as a mediator to ensure that decisions are made that are fair for you, your children, and their father.
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