Hi, I suspect my 24-year-old daughter has borderline personality disorder. From her first breath, literally, she has been as difficult as can be. Didn’t sorry her first three months. As a young child, she was diagnosed with ADHD, oppositional defiant disorder, and just a regular school system reject who didn’t fit their mold. She was kicked out of every daycare and school for aggressive behaviors and defiance. She’s never self harmed that I’m aware and she’s never indicated there has been any abuse whatsoever. Her father is a violent narcissist but has never been an active part of her life. She’s currently on house arrest and unfortunately that house is mine. She’s reverted right back to the irrational rages and has recently threatened violence. I can’t speak to her for fear it will start all over again. What is your best advice for getting her to treatment? If she violates this house arrest probation, she’ll go to prison for five years. I love her even though she hates me. I promised to never give up on her and I know if treatment isn’t found, her fate is sealed. I’d literally cut off my own right arm if I thought it could save her. Thank you for listening. ... View more