I am concerned about my teenage daughter. She is 15. Since she was 11 she has on and off again been stealing and lying from myself and her dad. Anywhere from money to jewellery and so forth. Now I was a child of the state growing up. So I am a very strict parent. I don’t allow social media or electronics during the week ect. I believe in having chores done before being allowed to stay at friends and doing fun things. My teenager pushed and pushed about a mobile phone to which she got one when she started high school. Explained all the stranger danger things and she still did the wrong thing and went on a website and exchanged numbers with a guy who claimed he was 17 when she was only 13 and half at the time. So I took the phone off her and had my niece who is a police officer speak to her about it. She earnt the phone back but then has kept pushing for social media ect I have constantly said no and the phone has a lot of restrictions so she can not access them on the phone. Now her friend group at school I believe are leading her a stray as I found a vape in her room which she says she hasn’t touched it ect she picked it up off the floor so her friends didn’t get into trouble. When she is on a good path her grades are amazing when she isn’t on a good path her grades attitude and behaviour are down the toilet. She has told her siblings that she should have been the only child and wishes that she was the only child She has also said to her siblings that she wants to be in an asylum like the joker and be part of the mafia and have a Mafia boss. She has recently voiced she does not want to live with me or her dad anymore that she wants to live with my mother who i have nothing to do with and I have said she can not live with her as she couldn’t even raise her own kids so how do you think she can raise you. I believe I am a very fair parent if you do your chores properly and behaviour is up to scratch you can go to your friends have your electronics ect. But I have stated to her that I don’t believe teenagers should be hanging at the shops if they do not have any money I don’t believe they should be there if they don’t. I said I wouldn’t have a problem with it if she had a job and wanted to go and buy stuff ect. I jsut don’t know what to do any more I have spoken to the school about this I have tried numerous amounts of times to speak with her. We started family counseling on Monday and she wouldn’t even speak. Aslo my partner is not her biological father But he has raised her like she is his Her bio father pasted away a few years ago she never met him as it was domestic violence relationship and police removed us. She knows that my other half isn’t her real dad. She has been writing notes and saying that she wished her dad was still alive And maybe she is truly this last name not this one ect My other half is heart broken we are lost as to what more can we do ... View more