Hi all,   I was here last week talking about my teen boy who studies in a boarding. He was caught red handed late at night with a phone  communicating with a girl online , (who he had met in holidays with other friends) and now  he's in school  punished for theses its not allowed to have a phone on you. we both parents are not in favour of this girl as she's suicidal, has depression and come from a broken home. his grades in school had fallen simply because of the communication between them . he lied to us and still continued being in contact with her. what baffles me is that inspite of being found out, he's not feeling sorry and still wants to stay in touch.  we went a school counsellor who thinks we are being over harsh on his relationship with this girl   we confiscated his phone and found that he's been in touch with her for a long time.   what do we do?? ... View more

My son 15year old  who studies in a boarding school is basically a very loving and caring except for not listening . he steps boundaries and expects to be forgiven. I have caught him speaking lies and lately he was accosted in school with a hidden phone. That clearly has implicated him for serious punishment as they are not allowed to keep one.   I am disturbed. whats the way forward to handle him? we are meeting him on his birthday . ... View more