Hi, Her behaviour has always been difficult every decision we make has to revolve round her and always has. Due to her verbal abusive and lazyness I have to her to get her own flat then she can do as she pleases. I've tried everything with her also other family and siblings have.
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Hi, If I leave her room she still would not tidy it. She would wear every item of clothing she had and after I left her to her own devices with a bedroom that resembled hoarders I had to clean it for hygiene reasons. She has no interests and no hobbies I've tried to get her interested. I've tried to get through to many of these help lines they are always engaged and offer little help. What ever I say or do she picks a fight. To be honest I would rather she moved out. I've tried everything with her. It's not just me it's the whole family who find her attitude and behaviour disgusting. An example is we were moving house recently. She was told daily for three months to start to tidy her room and pack. She laid in bed playing games on her mobile doing her usual thing of nothing. Everytime she was asked to do it it was screaming and shouting. She would not let us touch her stuff. Basically the night before the move her grandma came through and helped. We got moved and all she did was moan scream and shout that she could not find anything as her grandma should not have packed up her stuff. Her stuff incidentally is still all over her floor months down the line. As for my health I was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer and she could not care less. Her behaviour was like this before my diagnosis so it's nothing to do with this. She is 18 soon. I would never treat my parents like she treats us.
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I have a 17 year old daughter almost 18. I doubt I could address everything on a forum however I'm sick to the back teeth of her. She lays in bed all day literally. I go into her room at 2pm to say she needs to get up I get screamed at to get out. Her room is a mess everything on the floor. Her bathroom is disgusting full of sanitary pads on the floor urine and vomit. When she goes out on a rare occasion I clean it other wise I get screamed at to get out. She screams at the top of her voice at me and her father. There is no respect. She got kicked out of college as she didn't attend. We have tried to sit her down and talk to her. I've booked appointments at mental health she misses them. She makes a utter mess every where she goes tells me to F off. She has always been difficult and I dread going to bed on a night as I don't know what I will wake up to as I have to walk on eggshells as she just screams and shouts. She does nothing all day accept go on her mobile phone which I pay for or watch TV. Its got to the point where she is 18 in weeks and I've told my husband to tell her to move out. She wants for nothing we pay for her car give her money and all she does is disrespect us. She screams at the top of her voice swearing and the neighbours can hear if she gets asked to do anything for example tidy her room or get out of bed before 4pm. Any advice.
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