Hello. We have a 16 yr old boy who has been given everything he ever wanted. He smokes both cigarettes and marijuana. He has friends inc girls over at all times. He goes out,gets money whenever he wants. Has take out most nights. He does do what little chores like putting rubbish out etc. You get the picture. He grew up raised predominantly nu his grandmother who overcompensated because he didn't have a father. His mother stays with us but hasn't been for the last 3 months. Grandma is now in her mid 70s finding it very stressful because he is not listening at all. My question is,is it too late to set rules we can all agree on? Grandma doesn't want him to runaway and boy does not want to move with his mum when she finds her own place. Please anyone with any advice? Thank you for your time.
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