Hi @Mel2020 ,   You sound like such a caring and supportive mum, and it must be such a helpless feeling to see your son in pain, but not yet being able to take the steps to seek help.  The fact that he has a stable and supportive parent in you is incredibly valuable and important, and even though he may not necessarily be grateful now for what you're doing for him, I think in time he probably will be. I can hear how much you value your relationship, and he's lucky to have you on his side.    I hope you find the parent's support service helpful, and feel free to check in here any time - parenting can be a really tough gig, and you don't have to go through it alone.  ... View more