Hi I have 4 children 20, 17, 16 and 15. In order of Girl boy girl boy ! My eldest (past- I mean in 12, 14 and 15 years old she engaged in self-harm) and now my youngest is self-harming. I have him professional help, but 4 weeks in I don’t know anything or had any feedback how we can help. I am using my previous experience with our eldest and I am way calmer and less dramatic, however feeling in the dark and there is no communication from anyone to us as parents- I now what’s the “why” is not the most important but help how to support is very much needed and nothing is being communicated by the doctor, school counsellor or psychologist to us. Nothing is changing , my son is a non communicator since forever, he refuses to go to training or games in his chosen sport. I am self reasoning on his why reasons; he is still self-harming?, still not interested in life? or being bullied ? Depressed? I’m Feeling clueless and useless. How do we help at home whilst he receives help and confidentiality? ... View more