Hello, I can't see a real problem in this , if shoes fit him, why not It's not a crime  ... View more

Hello, did you try joint psychotherapy? children tend to use drugs because of repressed emotions and stress ... View more

Does he show the same propensity for self-harm? If not , everything is ok, in this age all teenagers move away from their parents and have mysterious girlfriends, he will definitely outgrow it try to find out, why it is so important to be in connection with her ALL the time, maybe she gives him some emotions  does he have the other friends?  ... View more

Hello, did you try to talk with the school staff (headteacher, class teachers)? Maybe she has some problems with classmates or the subject teacher... I just want to say that it's serious problem. You should also talk to psychotherapist Try to find out the reason, if you find the reason, the problem will be solved  ... View more

I suppose you don't like my advice, but don't clean her room, she knows that it's important for you and maybe even exhausts you. If she wants to be in a messy room, it's her right. At least she will get tired of living in the dirt and she will clean herself ... View more