So I have been married for a year and I have a 7 year old nonverbal autistic son and my wife has a 12 year old nonverbal autistic daughter with intellutual disability bi polar OCD and a few other mental health things going on that im not 100 percent on.She sees a therapist every month is heavily medicated goes to a special school where she gets ABA therapy and we have a outpatient ABA therpist that visits her at home.This child is insanely needy to the point where all my wife does is wait on her hand and foot.She does self injury and also injuries others.I feel like im hitting my breaking point with her and im starting to resent her.My wife expects me to leave her  cause of her daughter.I have tried to be stern with her ive tried being loving but about every 3 months like clock work she forgets everything she has learned and regresses and we have to start all over.She refuses potty training.Alot of the issue is that she refuses to even try.I am feeling hatred for this child(altho i never get agressive or show her my anger)I love my wife but its really bad cause im scared to have my son around us because she is so violent and he wont understand why his sister is attacking him.My anxiety is at a high time high and i feel that suicide is the only answer for me as I dont want to abandon my wife because she gave birth to a child ike this. ... View more