Hi there sorry for the delay! He is doing so much better! Getting him a good therapist that he trusts was very important. It took a while to find the right one. This didn’t happen until a year ago when he came home from college and we realized he was depressed.
I would say do all you can to give your son an adult that’s dedicated to listening to your son who can coach him on social skills. If he likes martial arts, great! But sports aren’t for everyone, so just let him find his passion and spend time pursuing it.
You don’t have to be limited to therapists around you anymore since Covid - zoom calls are great for shy kids! My son has never met his therapist in person!
Thanks for reaching out! It will get better. Bullying will always be a part of school. We have to give our dear kids an outlet to voice what is happening and to find themselves in the midst of that fear.
Ultimately it makes them stronger and compassionate, if they feel supported.
Wishing your precious son and you big warm waves of love and support. You are not alone!! There are so many suffering silently. But your son has a loving mother so I know he will be ok! Good luck!!!