Can the paying parent be forced to pay private school fees by ex?

[missmj11]

Does my friend have to pay private school fees to his ex partner for their son on top of child support already paid? The school is not necessary it is just convenient as it is close to home. He has never signed to say he would since or before separation and he already pays 900 per month in child support for his son. The mothers ways have convinced the son to not spend time with his dad, so he doesn't. They are in contact and he sees him on average, once a month, the little guy is only 12, but not forced to see his dad/my friend if ue chooses not too. It's really sad. It would cost her about 3000 for 1 year of school fees as she works casually and recieves centrelink benefits also, entitling her to school concession fees, etc. for their son. ? Thankyou in advance for any help/answers I hopefully recieve.

[Iona-RO]

Hi @missmj11 

Thanks for reaching out, it sounds like your friend is having a very stressful time at the moment. They are very lucky to have a friend like you looking out for them.

The best thing to do would be to contact Centerlink's Child Support team to find out more information. They will be able to give your friend answers in regards to their specific situation. 

I would also recommend your friend contacts the Family Relationship Advice line on 1800 050 321. They specialise in advice around separation issues and parenting arrangements after separation, which could be really helpful for your friend too.