My gson took a few gold charms that belonged to my other gson who is in the army..His Mom found them in his jewelry box. They asked if I gave these to him..I told him no and went into his box and took them back. I then confronted him with why he would take these items without asking. He said that I told him he could wear one of his cousins charms, and he took them all to determine which he wanted to wear. I never told him he could take any of them. He looks me right in my face and lied. When I had the chance of communicating with him without anyone around he admitted that I didn't give him permission..He apologized and I told him we could move forward because he admitted to it. Last night he came to my house and yet again he has another charm I forgot about on his neck. Family's sitting at the dinner table, I didn't want to make a scene, so I asked quietly about it. I took it right off his neck and said nothing. Again he said that I said he could wear one of his cousins charms...I have not approached this with his parents yet. I also noticed my son has put a lock on his bedroom door. Anyone have any suggestions?
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