If your teen is only asking for reasonable things, then there’s no reason not to say yes. My teen has become very reasonable and responsible and the only legitimate denial I typically have is financial. While your teen’s mental health supports have a duty of confidentiality, they can still (and are best positioned) to give you some guidance on how best to support your teen at home. You don’t need to walk on eggshells, the whole family could probably learn some new skills. Ask if there are any family DBT groups in your area. DBT is the gold standard for BPD. ... View more