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Hannahloulou016 · ‎07-04-2018

Hey, I just wanted to say that this situation could be any one of us. Im sorry and saddened to hear what you are going through. I guess you are just trying to comprehend whats going on in your life and how can you make things better. Give yourself time . I hope things get so much better for you and always here to hear your thoughts. x

Hannahloulou016 · ‎07-01-2018

Thankyou it’s a comfort knowing that someone understands .

Hannahloulou016 · ‎06-29-2018

Hey, Yes Im consistently trying to organise meetings , dinners etc. They have no time (apparently) always too busy. That hurts considering they are not at school and unemployed. Mothers Day was an absolute disaster as they spent it with their DAD..... I contact them everyday regardless. My daughter is different and Im trying to shelter her from them as much as possible and keep appositive outlook for her. So far she is doing very well. Shes an achiever and very easy to speak to . Feeling blessed with her.

Hannahloulou016 · ‎06-29-2018

Thankyou. It is a daily struggle trying to reach them. There is aggression , yelling and abuse almost everyday. On the other hand my daughter is very much connected to me. She is concentrating on her school work and has a very mature approach to the whole situation. I keep positive vibes around her. She spends more time with me than her dad at the moment. Which is another affirmation. What is she getting that the others don't? The boys are just off the rails and way to powerful for me. My eldest towers over me. So Im trying to use my words but they are not listening. Im not sure what you mean by support for myself? Emotional support? Financial ?

Hannahloulou016 · ‎06-28-2018

Hi, I havn't had my account hacked (yet) but I have had money taken from my wallet and I have had my son take money from my partners wallet, ashtray in both our cars and loose change around the house without asking (like a scavenger) It is a sick feeling that your own child has no conscience or feelings of how low this action is. I cannot give a solution but know this. You are a victim . How can they not see your heartbreak? Biggggg Strength to you. At the end of the day its not about the money , its about the action .

Hannahloulou016 · ‎06-28-2018

I have 3 Children . Boy 1- 19yr, Boy 2 - 17yr and Girl 13yr. After a long 16yr marriage ending of years of emotional abuse and control my boys have chosen to live with their father . Although I speak to them everyday . The decision came down to this . Me ... structure career driven and motivated . Hard worker . Their father manipulating con artist chased by creditors . His home is the classic man cave where the boys can have their friends over till all hours of the morning everyday . The three of them are unemployed. I just cannot understand how these boys can respect his way of life so easily and constantly critising me for trying to get them into Tafe or some form of education for their future . I’m a nag and they switch off . My heart is breaking as I see my boys not achieving anything .. and scabbing every dollar from the ashtray of my car or dressing table .(the only time they come to visit me ) I’m just so sad about this . Did I do it to them by divorcing their dad ? Why don’t they want more out of this life given to them . How can they not see the love and support I have for them and why did they leave ?

Hannahloulou016 · ‎06-26-2018

Good Morning , I’m Hellen and a Mum of 3. Two boys and the youngest a girl . I’m here because I cannot seem to get through yo my boys . Communication is bad and they don’t live with me . They decided to live with their dad.. a struggle for me daily . Their father is a strong influence and all three are now unemployed and the boys have left school . No qualifications and unemployable . I don’t believe this is what is meant for them ...I need to fix this and help them . Lost

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