Hi PapaBill , Thank you very much for taking the time to sharing your thoughts and your experience .As you mentioned we need to be clear with them for some activities and also allow our children to get involved and have their say because they want to feel inclusive . In fact my son invited me this the morning to play soccer with his two best friends and get to know their parents-I thanked him for doing that and congratulated for the awesome idea. There is so much we can learn from each others in this forum -share our experiences and ideas so our kids grow healthy. Thanks again
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In the last 6 months I have seen him only several times .The mother also claim that he does not like spending time with her like before.She also believe 'thats normal for a child of 12 years old that prefer to spend more time with his friends than his parents'.We have court arrangement in place but those have not been working.Once my son stated to me that 'you and mumm ruined my life'.I tried to explain him that couples can separate and that can happen for a number of reasons.I also told him that we love him and have been doing anything...his mother would purchase anything he likes ,which i disagree in principle but she seems to wanting to show him how much she loves him. Anyhow ,I feel concerned because he seems to slipping way from his parents .?
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