Today I am grateful for two things. 1. My 8-year-old son saved a tiny kitten from freezing cold. The temperatures are extremely severe and no one deserves to stay out in such weather. This kind gesture from my son made my day.  I am beaming with pride that I raised him right.  2. I am so grateful for modern-day science and technology that is keeping us warm and comfortable by shielding us from harsh winter winds and freezing temperatures.  ... View more

I can understand how you are feeling. It happens in my family too. Sometimes, we unknowingly hurt someone and when someone comments on your parenting, you are bound to feel annoyed. My question to you is that 'Is your son's dad always talking you down in front of your son?'. If it was a one-time thing, then you should communicate with your son's dad and let him know how you feel. But if deliberately insults your parenting, then we have a real problem.  If your son repeatedly sees that you are badly treated by his dad, it could affect his psychology and affect the way he treats women in the future.  ... View more

When a child goes into depression, it can be overwhelming for parents. One thing that you need to understand that depression is common in teens nowadays and it can be treated with proper care.  My advice to you is to monitor her dose of antidepressants, never skip a psychiatrist's appointment and always be there for her.  The latter is really important as she needs to know that you understand her and care for her. This is the time that she needs maximum support from her loved ones. No matter how tough it gets for you to deal with her mood swings, always put yourself in her shoes and show her empathy.   ... View more

While I understand that having  close friends is important, it is not something that you can control. Sometimes your frequency and mindset don't match with others.  I had trouble finding trustworthy friends when I was a teen.  I spent my whole teen repenting not having cool people to hangout with. But now, when I think of it, I feel there is nothing wrong in not having friends. If I could say one thing to my teen-self, it would be 'You are unique. You are awesome. You don't need to change the way you are for finding friends'. I hope that you can encourage your daughter to embrace who she is and not feel dejected cos of lack of close friends.  ... View more