I think that if they are not 16 years old, then you need to turn to the police. Because violence against children is a crime. ... View more

This is a very difficult situation. It is very important to talk with the child, but in this growth the child already considers himself to be an adult, and does as he thinks is right, and as a rule it differs from what the parents say. It seems to me that you need to talk to him as an adult and not as a son. Sit down and just talk, look in your eyes and see if he understands what you're talking about with him. It is not necessary to talk about who to be friends with and with whom not. It is worth saying that he must choose with whom to communicate but not do stupid things and analyze everything. Prohibitions never help, teens will do everything they are forbidden. ... View more

@taokat I told him that when he talks to his grandmother in that tone, he also hurts both me and all who are around, I said. He apologized and said that he would try not to do it any more, but sometimes it happens. I think the fact is that the grandmother is not an authority for him, and he used to talk to her like that, it is clear that he loves us all equally, but there is a certain habit in the relationship with whom he is more constrained and with whom he is more cured. ... View more

@Red21 thanks for the answer. I plan to study at home. ... View more

I have long wanted to try yoga. While I'm only engaged in fitness. Can have some tips for beginners? ... View more

Hi @taokat So she wants to show others how cool she is. I noticed this behavior when I was still at school, when there is a friend with whom you have a good time, but when there is someone else next to her, she starts making fun of you and making fun of others. So that on your background it seems better than you. How old is your daughter? ... View more

Hi @taokat. Today the nephew has come again to us. When did Grandma ask how he was doing? He responded in a sharp manner that is normal and that he was not touched, he will play on the console. I did not have time to talk to him and ask him what had happened and why he was behaving like this again. But tomorrow I'll ask. ... View more

Hi @Jay-9. I think that it is necessary to talk to him as an adult, ask the right questions (why he does it and what it gives him)? Give a personal example, tell how you behaved at his age. And try to talk as a friend on an equal footing and not as a teenager ... View more

Hi @Ngaio-RO Thanks for the advice. I talked to my nephew about how I feel when he talks to me well and when he talks badly with his grandmother. He said that he understood everything, said that he would try not to be rude. She also asked if he loved his grandmother, what he said that he loved. Let's see how long it will last. ... View more

I think the child for a long time did not receive proper attention from the parents. We have a similar situation with my nephew. When his parents divorced, the grandmother, who very spoiled him, was engaged in the upbringing of the child. Then he began to demand everything he wanted, and he began to be rude to all who were good to him. I always had my neutrality, and I spoke quite strictly with him, but I also played privately. Now the child treats me well, but my grandmother and grandfather dare. How can I now teach him respectful attitude to people who have grown him I do not know. ... View more