Hi thanks for replying my Daughter she's kinda in the middle Eldest is my son who's 23,Daughter 19,Daughter 17(pregnant) Son 13, Daughter 8,Daughter 5.My Husband keeps saying she my daughter Becci knows what she needs,to do (Termination) But it's not his decision to make either he will not listen to Anything I have to say,at the moment relationships strained as he wont talk to Becci my eldest Daughter moved out to stay with her Boyfreind,& she's came around to the idea that her sisters pregnant,she's not happy but accepted it... ... View more

Hi sorry I Haven't been in as much. things at Home have been some what tense,after visting the Clinic for a Termination My Daughter decided,it wasn't what she Wanted So leaving the the clinic we went home and talked about what we were going to do,as I respect her decision, and will support her am I wrong to feel that she's being quite selfish?Anyways we went to see the midwife who booked her in for a Date scan on which it showed she is actually pregnant with TWINS ( identical) and they have put her at high risk as her blood group is res negative,And her BMi is below average there's so many worries,at the Moment,I was thinking maybe we could financially cope with 1 but now there's 2 I'm literally crying most Nights she's only just turned 17,has no education no job, I have 6 children as it is,our house is completely overcrowded as it is,She's 14 weeks Pregnant and her attitude hadn't really changed much apart from her mood swings& extremely nastyness towards me and her siblings,she keeps saying I don't no how it feels,(iv had 6 ) but I don't no anything as iv never been pregnant with Twins( I miss carried twins 9 years ago) and she Knew about my miscarriage,She keeps saying this isn't her fault and I'm finding it really hard to not say Anything back!...she's absolutely loving the Attention from the Health professions,loving the attention of being pregnant and them making a fuss of her,Any other advice would be Great! Joanne. ... View more

Thanks for replying,at the moment my Daughter had harmed herself on her arms and legs the father isn't in the picture he's done this before,getting another girl pregnant last year his parents knew but didn't bother telling my Daughter his parents aren't bothered about,our situation and really don't care I asked them if we could possibly all get together and talk about what's would happen ect,ect but they wouldn't it's really hard at the moment,I'm still unsure what do everyone thinks because iv done it before with my own I can do it again but,no one is even asking me how I feel about it. ... View more

Hi thanks for replying just an update on what's happening at the moment,iv taken my daughter to the doctors and explained that's I'm worried about her mental health state of mind,she's been saying she feels suicidal and self harming and that when the baby does arrive & it Crys she will "kill the little c***" & if it's a boy she's taking it back swapping it for a girls she's very imature and childish I told the doctor all this and told him she is not mentally prepared for a baby,he told me to leave the room to talk to my daughter alone patient confidentality and basically asked me to leave the room,my daughter came out and didn't say anything about what he said I don't no what else to do my elder daughter has moved out as she can't bare to be in the room as her(they share) and will not speak to me iv told her I cannot tell her sister what to do just advise her,she's still staying out all day and not returning till 1am in the morning if I ask her where's she's been I'm told to mind my own buisness. ... View more

Hi thanks everyone who,replied just to update further,we went to see a Doctor and talk about the pregnancy I voiced my concerns in front of my Daughter about her maturity & the worrying sides of things hope she will cope mentally & physically. she's been saying she feels suicidal and self harming,& I mentioned to the Doctor that I was worried when the baby is here that she might harm herself or the baby,as she had said a few things that worry me ect "if the little c*** Crys il the time il kill it"," if I have a boy I'm swapping it for a girl" The doctor basically kicked me out the room asking me to leave to talk to my Daughter Alone under the patients confidentiality act,it's like I Don't even have any say in the Matter I no my Daughter& I no that she is not mature enough to for a baby,she's very childlike she's a 13 year old in a women's body nobody in the medical profession are taking me serious,iv spoken to my Daughter about this and the fact bringing up a baby is so hard work physically draining,but all she sees is the attention she's getting from Doctors her friends from school,fussing around her and she's loving it.shes still containing to stay out all day& getting back home at 1am in the morning,& when iv asked her where she's been I'm told to mind my own buisness.communication with her older sister has vanished she's moved out & staying with her boyfriend she will not be around her(they share a room)at the moment my eldest daughter is refusing to speak to me,only communication is via her boyfriend,it feels like I'm going nowhere with this. ... View more