@Hopeful2021 welcome to the ReachOut forums.  I can imagine the news about your daughter self-harming must have come as a big shock. It sounds like like you're doing everything you can to try and support your daughter, and I'm wondering do you have support for yourself through this time as well? Re: the psychologist, I'm sorry to hear the wait is so long, how frustrating.  Do you think your daughter would consider something like Kids Helpline or ReachOut's youth forums if she needs someone to talk to in the meantime?  I notice you mentioned you found out through the school - have they been supportive?  Also, for yourself, there are some resources about self harm and teenagers on our website that might be worth a read if that's helpful.  We're here to support you.  ... View more