Hello
@Sunshine72Wow you are having a rough time too it just doesnt seem to end.
Im sorry your dealing with this and his graffiti as well its so hard
Im so glad he went to school though i wish we could get that consistency but i also understand the drama to get them up its draining. You said you got bad news from the school is everything ok?
My son went to the gum and seemed fine until this morning. My hubby went in as normal to get him up for school and was told im not going because mum didnt make me eggs yesterday and get out go away. He decided to get up at around 9.30 and then it began. He called out mum can i have breakfast i said yes come watch me make them so that you can do it when im away.
Im currently writing this sitting on the plane lol
He kicked off again and said no well im not going to school then. I said i thought you told your dad you werent going he said i didnt say that mmm
Anyway he came down again and said in his uniform can you please make me eggs. I asked are u going to school he said i dont know and why are you blackmailing me. I said im not i just want to show u how he said ill just have to get up early when your away mmmmm so i made the eggs on that pretence.
Anyway it took until 12 noon and i took him to school. As soon as i pulled up he said im not going there is no point. He knew i was leaving for the airport 12.30. I tried again to say thats its for his benefit to finish year 9 and we would help anyway we could. I told him he will struggle getting jobs and any further schooling without it. He said ill just get a job at maccas. Which is fine by me. I asked again to please go to school as i had driven here and i needed to go so i dont miss my flight, he said no i want to go home so i started to head home I said ok but as long as you realise we wont be giving you money. He cracked it said ok im going in so i had to pull up in the middle of the road he got out of the car said im being an idiot told me to shut up and said i was stingy. I cannot believe the abuse. I rang my husband on the way home and said thats it. When you pick him up he either commits to going to school the normal hours doing the work or get a job. I cannot emotionally deal with these antics anymore just to try and get him to school.
My son just cant see it sadly so we will just keep trying to show him as best we can. But i cannot do anymore mornings like this again. If he doesnt go then he can get a job at maccas and work it out later when he matures a bit more or lets us help him.
Hope your ok and your day was better than mine xx
