05-22-2018 07:33 PM
05-22-2018 10:59 PM
Hey @Mssassy how frustrating that they are monitoring your messages. It sounds like this really concerns you. Do you have any idea what could be their intent behind this? Anything in your intuition kicking in? It is a complete invasion of privacy so I understand your wanting to sort the issue, can you confront the situation head on and ask them to cease? Or is it not an option?
I will tag some of our community for their input
05-22-2018 11:44 PM
One option is to change the communication platform away from Facebook Messenger.
A few are
Telegram, iChat, use a phone messaging app. There are lots of options.
That way you could communicate privately.
It all depends on the platform/computer/phone you are communicating on.
05-23-2018 01:58 PM
05-24-2018 12:55 PM
05-25-2018 05:20 PM
Hi @Mssassy, I can imagine how upsetting and frustrating this situation would be for you. As with the other parents, I think it's an invasion of you and your son's privacy as well.
Did your son's father give you any reason as to why they monitor your conversations? How does your son feel about it?
I'd suggest raising the issue again with them and maybe changing your communication app. The worry is they'll just start monitoring your conversations on any platform you use.
Would you and your son's father consider family counselling to work through this situation and come up with a solution that works for everyone?
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