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DADOFTHREE3

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This is tougher than I thought recently my ex wife is using my kids as weapons. Im trying to trust God but it’s hard, I’m losing my mind when i can only see them once a week monitor visits for 6hrs than 4 days a week. Just pray thanks
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Bre-RO

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Hi there @DADOFTHREE3 

Thank you for opening up about your struggle. It sounds like a heart-wrenching time for you, and I'm sorry to hear how much pain you're in. It's good to hear that you're faith is helping you through this time, though I can imagine how hard it must be to be apart from your children. 

Do you have a support or someone to talk to at the moment - a friend, family member or community who you can turn to? 

We hope to hear back from you soon! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Shmic

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Hey Mate,
I just wanted to let you know. You are not alone in this.
Unfortunately some of us have been through this before.
I in particular have been going through this for over 10hrs yrs now.
There were times I wasn’t allowed any contact at all with my boys for months.
The only advice I can give is to stay strong.
Keep thinking about your children. Keep them in your heart, mind and soul.
Don’t give up. Fight, but legally. Don’t do anything stupid. They will come around eventually. And hopefully one day they will know you never gave up on them.
But it is up to you. Stay Strong!
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DADOFTHREE3

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Thank you so much! I appreciate it.
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DADOFTHREE3

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Since my post it has been lots of storms but the judge ruled back to 50/50 DCFS child protection services dropped the charges inconclusive. GOD IS GOOD