Hi @Lost71 sounds like the relationship between your daughter and her boyfriend is not very healthy for either of them. It is extremely hard seeing your child in a relationship that is not good, especially if they are both smashing up your houses - which is never acceptable! A good resource that another Reach Out Parent recommended to me was the work of Dr Jill Murray regarding relationships. She has some great books about teenage relationships that you may find helpful. There is a book called "But he never hit me" If your daughters boyfriend yells at her now, I can understand your concern that his temper may lead to other forms of abuse.
It is obvious you really care and love your daughter - As hard as it is, it is really important to let your daughter know that even though you may not always agree with her choices, that you will love her regardless... that way when things are not good with her relationship with her boyfriend that she knows you will be there for her.
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