hi i have 3 teenage boys 14,14, and 15 yr olds i am having a huge problem with them not wanting to communicate with there father when they are with me, they attend his place every 2nd weekend now my twin boys have refused the last month, i have tried everything to facilitate this and encourage it immensely to the point i am getting cranky about it, i asked why they don't want to and my oldest says " i text him this morning or i already spoke to him, my ex does contact them everyday with a text or a call, i don't have a issue with it its when my ex then starts attacking me and blaming me for the non response from the boys, please any advice would be helpful with this.there were a few incidences that may have contributed to it but i am questioning myself am i doing enough.
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