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This week, I took a moment to interview one of the first members of our forums - @olliefinches! We couldn't do this without the help of people like Olliefinches willing to help us get things started! They've done a great job out helping others.
How old are your kids? Can you tell us abit about your family?
We have only one child, a 17 year old son. Our son was bullied in Year 6 and since then has suffered from severe anxiety. The anxiety started as school refusal and as of last year he was diagnosed with severe OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) contamination. My husband works full time and I am our son's full time carer.
When it comes to your son, what are you most proud of?
I am very proud of how my son fights his anxiety. He wants to get better and live a normal life. He, himself, is the only one who can make it happen, all we can do is support him.
I am very proud of how my son fights his anxiety. He wants to get better and live a normal life. He, himself, is the only one who can make it happen, all we can do is support him.
What's your favourite thing to do on the weekend?
My favourite thing to do on the weekend is escape into my garden. It gives me some time out.
How would you describe your parenting style?
My parenting style is soft. This is good and bad. Good side is that I have a wonderful relationship with my son but not so good as it slowed the process of him getting better with the OCD. In the last year I have been learning how to be a stronger parent so that I can stand up to the OCD.
What's the best song for you to relax to?
I don't have a favourite song but anything that has positive catchy words.
I don't have a favourite song but anything that has positive catchy words.
If you could add one thing to ReachOut parents what would that be?
Tell parents to be true to yourself. Trust your gut instinct and when you feel it is getting to much go for a walk.
What's the one piece of advice you think kids wish all parents knew?
My son hates me nagging him eg to do his school work, practise his ERP, go to bed early etc. I think he would love it if I could find away to get him to do these things without the 'squawking' as he puts it.
Thanks! Any last comments?
Parenting a teenager is challenging. I am with our son 24/7 and there are times when I just want to run and hide but that doesn't last for long. I love watching/listening to him turning into a young adult. I feel the anxiety has made him more aware of the world in general in a good way.
