Hello. My 16 yr old son began dating a girl last year as a sophomore and she a freshman. They dated for 8 months during the school year until she went to camp during the summer, met a boy, and broke up with my son. She did it in a text and my son was blindsided.He was devastated as she was his first girlfriend. It took him a good long time to get over that...lots of crying and self deprecation went on. When school started back up she texted him, told him she broke up with her boyfriend and how she missed him. Within a week they were back together. It has now been another 5 months. A couple months ago she started texting and hanging with a male friend whom my son is also friends with. My son voiced his displeasure with that situation so they started facetiming behind my sons back. She now has broken up with him again...this time he found out when she changed her status on Instagram. Again...blindsided. But she is still meeting up with this guy even though she insists they're just friends and my son knows it. But this other boy's mom told someone he has a new girlfriend and we know it's her. Again, my son is devastated ,sobbing, blaming himself for everything just like he did the first breakup. Nothing I say seems to resignate and I am feeling so angry at this girl myself. My husband and i are friends with the girl's parents and we know they dont know the details of either breakup, we only do because our son confides in us during his sobfests. I just dont know how else to help him, and should I keep the details from her parents or let them know how things really went down. I know they would be disappointed in how she handled things. But to be honest, it would not be for 'revenge' if any are thinking that...just thought it might be a teaching moment for them ... View more