Thank you I do have hope Obe day he will come out of that room and live his life as any normal teenager Happy fir you and your son out and about going college Best wishes ... View more

Hi sorry to hear about your son . No my son never been autistic Therapists and Psicologist assuming that but so far no diagnosis as my son refusing Even to see any doctor . Social worker suggesting I depend living as she’s saying Living with me it’s not working Fir him to grow up needs tough love wich I started to agree Even my son keeps saying He only want to live with me And he’s scared to go to live on his own . He’s will be 18 next month And help and support Will be less they saying . I’m willing to let him go For his own good Because I’m not going to b used as his servant As soon he grows better fir his social and mental health really It’s taugh decisions for us mums but we have to decide best for them even if our hearts 💕 suffers. As long they feel their path in their own personal life’s . ... View more

Só sorry to hear that Stay positive and pray for her just to be safe Have faith I’m sure she will return Be strong With time she might regreat and apologise to you . 😇💕 ... View more

I do agree with that We are mothers not their servants as kids today treat Most parents like that They need to feel Abd time will teach them if they don’t or won’t see it now It’s mothers day today in London And two boys I have None of them even text me Sad modern world really 😪😓 ... View more

I think you should help her to move out Lack of own space brings unhappiness and even depression Try to text her That’s what I do lately With my 18 year old son I’m only one he texts or calls His dad or brother or professionals he completely ignores sadly ... View more

Hi there many thanks for your kind supportive message Just to let you all know I’m not in Australia I’m In London .just an update about my son No changes he won’t talk with no one but he chats 5 m day with me not much but better than nothing Psiquiatrist today spoke with him privately but he kept filming her . She’s trying to assess him Fir autism or severe depression sadly Also they start suggesting Independent living for him Because he treats me like his servant really . He’s my son I love him no doubt But I’m walking fir two years in egg shells with him Wherever I go I worry When I open his bedroom door I have fears ???? And I have a very delicate job Indeed wich is in palliative unit As health care assistant As well dementia unit Yes I just know something has to b done and I don’t want my son to spent another year in his bedroom like prisioneir if his own life 😒😞😢 God help anyone wth mild or severe depression Such complicated illness Many thanks ... View more

Many thanks for your reply Yes has been very difficult He has been two different hospitals under mental health act they assumed he was having a bit of Spectrum autism But no one test him to diagnose him properly As he refused any meds or tests No he is not studying at all Yes I’m having support with psiquiatrist nurse therapist As well social worker But they all feel this is mysterious case As my son won’t ipen up to any of them He doesn’t have friends either His brother tried to visit But he tried to hit him So brother stoped visiting Just to add I moved house two years ago Also he has been unhappy and bullied at high school He hated that school as well teachers As he missed all his mates from the previous primary school His dad thinks he’s being lazy And in comfort zone But I start thinking he’s having anxiety of the world outside his room To clarify he’s been house bounded He only goes kitchen shower and room He won’t step in garden at all Anyway he’s lovely boy just needs right help and I’m not able to do so on my own But I don’t want him in that room forever either 😒😪😓😞 ... View more

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Best you can do is being clear and teach your child that taking belongings from places or people with no permission Or not paying it’s called stealing . That way he will learn the right way ... View more