thank you all for your replys. i have calmed down more today :) . i think it is more that i see it and feel it rather then my daughter. i was bullied when i was younger and it obviously still effects me and i suppose im watching my daughter and my son in those eyes . she has broaden her circle of friends so she doesnt have to rely on these girls which is good. last night we talked for the first time in ages a proper talk and she said she feels she doesnt have much in commen with these girls and shes happy so its time for me to try and put the big girl pants on and cut a little of the apron strings . :) thank you again :) ... View more