Hi everyone....I'm new here and this is my first post. I wish I had of joined earlier, our family has struggled for years now. I'll try to be brief....we have a 16 year old son, an only child. First saw a personality change in Year 6 when he grew to hate school as a result of persistent bullying. There was self-harm, anger, sadness etc...all very sad at age 11. Prior to that, he was the happiest most placid, kind and loving child. We moved him at the end of Year 6 to another school. Year 7 and 8 were okay at the new school, although he still saw the school counsellor regularly. At the end of first term in Year 9, he was diagnosed with severe depression, social anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder and mild psychosis. He was able to complete half of Year 9 and half of Year 10 with a lot of help from us (mum and dad) and enormous support from the school. He has struggled everyday. He is on anti-depressants and anti-psychotics. Going to school every day is like climbing Mt Everest for him. I took extended leave from my job two years ago to support him and my husband has adjusted his working hours till 9-3pm and has one day off a week to support me to support our son. It takes both of us to get him to school. He is quite sedated in the morning from his medication (and maybe depression and anxiety) and after his shower we usually find him lying cold and wet on the bathroom floor...often asleep again. He struggles with his work because of the negative symptoms of the psychosis, the depression and the anxiety. He struggles with concentration, focus, understanding, comprehension, organisation, apathy, motivation....he struggles with bright light, noise etc. Suffers migraines. Usually vomits at school once or twice a day as a result of his medication (and/or anxiety). He wants to be at school but also hates it...does that make sense? We feel he just can't get well with the pressure of Year 11 and in the school environment. Last Wednesday, he walked home from school about 10:30am...just walked out of the school grounds, didn't tell anyone and didn't ask permission. He just turned up at home and said 'I'm done'. Since then we have had one episode of running away, one of self-harm, a lot of anger. His behaviour was slipping a bit at school and he was getting detentions and had his phone confiscated for a week. My husband and I feel that we can't ask anymore of him. We are worried about how much more pressure he can take. He has weekly psychological support and he has his medication, but is still struggling. The school has been amazing and they will be so sad if he leaves. So will I...but then that is my issue, not my son's. Has anyone else had a similar situation?? Thanks so much for your thoughts.
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